how u wanna see things

mi:
dun take things too hard and ur life will b much easier

远:
your life will be much easier if u don't take things too hard.

if u dun take things too hard, your life may not be easier.

take things easily, you may not be happy.
but i can be sure life is easy, if u don't take things too hard

just the figure of speech (someone@work, 2008)